My Five-Minute Rule

So several months ago, I made a rule for myself: If I see something that needs to get done & it can be completed within 5 minutes, I'll do it immediately.Ā  It doesn't sound Earth-shatteringĀ or full of wisdom. But this metarule has saved me time & energy. The catch is it means I have to …

All in

I'm an "All or Nothing" woman. Basically, that means I either go balls to the wall or I say, "fuck it" & walk away. It's the way I'm wired & I've noticed it in every important area of my life. Take relationships for example. I will be 100% dedicated to you & your vision for …

Simplify

To get out of the house the other day, I went shopping at Target. I love Target but I never go shopping just to go shopping. I need a reason otherwise it's just not my bag. I feel like it's a waste of time & money. I've always been like that. In high school, all …

Focusing on my life

I wouldn't say I've lost compassion for others. My heart still breaks to watch others (known or unknown) be hurt in any way. After all, we're all connected, right? While I may not fully grasp their pain, my heart still aches for them. But lately, as I've briefly mentioned, I've been focusing on issues in …

Watching TV

Blame it on my personality type but I'm not one to watch TV for hours on end. I really don't get it. I feel like my time & energy could be used elsewhere. It used to bother me when my family would watch TV all night. Five hours sitting & staring at mindless bullshit to …